There is a story told in the
Gerontikon, the sayings of the desert Fathers, about a visitor
who goes to see three monks. And they talked all the afternoon.
Suddenly the visitor realizes that the sun has set. “It is time for
vespers;†says the visitor, “it is time for us to pray together.†And
the monks answered, “But we have been praying together all the last
four hours.†Prayer, in their experience, was not just occasional but
continual; not just one activity among others, but the activity of
their entire lives. It was a dimension present in everything else that
they did. St. Gregory of Nazianzos says, “Remember God more often than
you breathe.†Prayer, ideally, should be as much part of us as our
breathing.